A few months ago I traveled to Paris with my man. By divine intervention really, our hotel was located in the most erotically charged district of Paris: Montmartre, home of the Moulin Rouge. One can sex-travel through time here, starting in precolombian times at the first floor of the Musée the l’Erotisme and ending in real time [...]
Yesterday my gorgeous friend Lien called me just to say that she had had an extraordinary bodyness experience painting her body in an impulse with left-over henna she uses to color her hair in explosive red. Need I say I adore her? :-) She totally brightened up a day that was ruined by a [...]
There’s loving and there’s having a relationship. There’s the deep knowing that he’s the one and there’s the way you relate to him in daily life. In relating to our loved one, we unconsciously look for MODELS in the past. We pick the model we experienced as to be safe, comforting and pleasant. Unfortunately, it’s [...]
Since I started with Soul&Spice I have been receiving all kinds of questions and a very recurring one is if I could recommend good books on my topic. So I thought I’d make a post to inspire y’all beautiful women! Books can change lives. Here are the books that completely changed and healed my [...]
Imagine… . a space created and held by women where there is absolute body freedom, no sense of shame whatsoever but instead a culture of delighting in your own body. . And imagine becoming so familiar with that attitude that you can pull it off in front of a man with a camera. . Imagine [...]
“And a good man and a good woman can’t find the good in each other a good man and a good woman will bring out the worst in the other the bad in each other” (Feist) . This terribly beautiful song from Feist breaks my heart every time. Because of its sore and heartfelt [...]
You crammed my young girl’s heart with romantic bahoo and I was young and stupid enough to believe it. I would meet the perfect one guy (ONE!! just ONE!!), he would meet my every heart’s desire (for crying out loud), we would live in a castle, have cute babies and live happily ever after in a cloud of pink [...]
Your body is in fact a tiny version of the cosmos, did you know that? Every cell is made out of the same materials as stars and planets and structured like a galaxy. Atoms and neurons are orbiting around in empty space. There is a natural law that keeps them moving around and neatly determines [...]